No Clarification, no lecture, nothing like that but today I’m going to write about something with which we are over-familiar these days. Trust me, we all are.
So, officially…..

Hello everyone, let’s talk about that thing which you think is “LOVE”.

In this, I’m going to cover an age from about 11 years to around 24-26 years, I guess. Rest depends upon your mental age and maturity.

A few days back, I was talking to a little girl of about 12-13 years of age and she told me that she has a boyfriend and I shouldn’t talk about it to anyone and that she loves her so much. That moment practically left me “flabbergasted and speechless” because at the back of my mind, I was thinking that in my time when I was 12-13 years of age, I must have cried for not being able to watch Scooby Doo, may be. Kids these days have really become so advanced that they know how to love a different gender and that too in a ROMANTIC manner at such a tender age, if you know what I mean. *facepalm*
Well, I didn’t even know my full Biology back then. But, then this is what you think is “LOVE”.

People these days, they “LOVE” someone and get committed as if it is like using an eraser. I try to use it as long as I can, but I don’t mind breaking it in half and giving it to someone else. Also, it hardly matters to me if it gets dirty and the best thing is that if I lose it, I can simply get another one by either buying one or taking it from someone else. You love someone / you use an eraser for two years or so and then you just leave it alone and discard it because you don’t get that feeling anymore. *laughs out loud* Really, you ever even LOVEd someone? Or did you do so just in your desperation to find out how this thing is? Or have you forgotten the real essence of that word called “Feeling”?

“What is my Jaanu doing? Shonu had dinner? My baby is hungry?”
*OHHHH CRAPPPPP, SO MUCH LOVE* 😀 Oh, and I forgot to mention “BABU” -_-

Dear O Dear, I love my name so much, can’t we just keep it that way? -_-

I love you so much so I can treat the way I want to plus I don’t care whether you like it or not and also, I want to get you jealous of others. Then again, I can shout on you and I can do a lot of things myself but not allow you to do so. In short, I can do whatever I want and I expect you to be my some slave sort of thing.
Don’t worry, this is not me. This is a mentality that I’ve seen in a lot of people of almost my age or elders. The most shitty attitude I’ve ever seen in anyone. But, you know what, this is what you think is “LOVE”. -_-

First phase: “Baby, I love you. You’re my love. You’re my life. You’re my this and that and what not.”
Second phase: “I’ve got this problem with you bla bla bla. Why can’t you help me out in this?”
Third phase: “Why can’t you give me some space? Why do you have a problem with all such things that I do?”
Final phase:” The most expected break-up”
LOL. By the way, this is what you think is “LOVE”. Because, who cares, I’m going to anyway start looking for a new girlfriend the very next day and I’m going to get one soon.
I KNOW THAT FEEL BRO. LOL
Above mentioned things were valid for both boys and girls

Girls’ attitude in this “Love but not so LOVE” world is awesome. When I say that, I mean it. They don’t like it but still they want the same. They too have the same ideology. One after the other. Then you say that you are hurt. Oh awesome, how do you expect to be trusted?

I don’t want you to follow me but I still want you to follow me. Such an effect of Bolly, Holly and Tollywood that an over-filmy life becomes an expectation. You don’t get the difference till you trust wrong people consecutively one after the other. And then you judge the innocent people wrongly. But, you know what, this is what you think is “LOVE”.

I had 2 months long relationship, 5 months long relationship…………………… These have become such common things to hear these days. Dear people, you weren’t in any 2-5 months long relationship, rather in reality, you were in SHIT, deep deep SHIT.
Your so called relationship survives 2-3 years and then you end it saying that you don’t get that feeling now. Dear, you need help and a lot of it.

There is another aspect of this which is that people manage to get numerous Girlfriends and boyfriends over a span of a few months itself. Well, if I talk in the language of cricket then that’s a Brilliant strike rate and average, really.

You don’t love him / her but still you get committed. Dear, can’t you speak even this much truth to yourself ? Listen to your conscience or else, someday it’ll stop speaking to you.

Respect the word which generates a feeling called “LOVE”. Respect the other gender, please. Dragging your so called relationships just out of desperation is completely useless.
BUT, THEN AGAIN, THIS IS RIGHT WHAT YOU THINK IS “LOVE”. …… and yeah, LOL 😀

The ones who are good with their relations need not take any offense, rather I think that you’ll agree with me. Apart from that, others…………. well…………..LOL. 😀